Matchmaker Certification Secrets Revealed: The Truth About What Training Programs Don’t Want You to Know (and What Actually Works)

You’ve probably seen the ads, glossy websites promising to “certify” you as a professional matchmaker in just one weekend. The truth? Most of these programs are more about selling certificates than building competent professionals. If you’re serious about creating a sustainable, ethical matchmaking business, it’s time to know what’s really going on behind the scenes. The Uncomfortable Truth About Matchmaking […]

Why Professional Matchmakers Lose Clients Before the First Call

Why do professional matchmakers lose clients before ever getting on a discovery call? It’s not your pricing or process—it’s how unprepared your business looks online. Arlene Washburn reveals the exact mistakes costing matchmakers thousands in lost business: unprofessional email addresses, broken website links, missing privacy policies, deceptive “As Seen On” marketing, and false success rate claims. Learn why Gmail addresses […]

Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy: How Matchmakers Can Support Diverse Relationship Models

Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is becoming a larger part of today’s dating and matchmaking landscape. In this episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn speaks with George, an experienced voice in the ENM community, about how transparency, communication, and compassion are transforming modern relationships. They discuss:✨ What ethical non-monogamy really means (beyond labels and misconceptions)✨ How to support clients who […]

How Coaching Is Changing the Future of Matchmaking | Brandan Rader Interview

In this episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn sits down with Brandan Rader, a relationship expert and coach, to explore how coaching and psychology are transforming the world of matchmaking. They discuss how behavioral science helps matchmakers better understand their clients, improve outcomes, and redefine compatibility in today’s modern dating landscape. Brandon shares insights on how coaching tools, […]

5 Red Flags Killing Your Matchmaking Business (And How to Fix Them)

As a matchmaker, you’re not just running a matchmaking business—you’re holding people’s hearts, hopes, and dreams in your hands. The way you present yourself, communicate with clients, and operate your matchmaking business directly affects not only your success but the reputation of our entire industry. Whether you’re just starting your matchmaking journey or you’ve been in the business for years, […]

Protecting Your Matchmaking Business: Compliance, Contracts & Accreditation with Peter Nahmias

Running a matchmaking business is about more than helping people find love — it’s about protecting yourself, your clients, and your reputation. 💼💘 In this powerful episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn sits down with international attorney and arbitration expert Peter Namas to uncover the critical legal and compliance issues every matchmaker needs to know. 👉 You’ll […]

Radical Inclusivity in Love: Danielle Selber on Redefining Modern Matchmaking

Today, I’m sitting down with Danielle Selber — a matchmaker who has spent nearly 10 years building love connections in Jewish and LGBTQIA+ communities with her signature approach of radical inclusivity and zero judgment. 💖 In this episode, we dive deep into:✨ Why matchmaking is about community building—not just one-on-one introductions.✨ How cultural competency shapes healthier, more respectful dating.✨ The […]

Breaking Stigma & Building Connection: Dr. Peter Zafirides on Mental Health, ADHD & Modern Love

In this powerful episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, host Arlene Washburn sits down with board-certified psychiatrist Dr. Peter Zafirides to explore the vital link between mental health and relationships. With over 30 years of experience treating depression, anxiety, ADHD, and bipolar disorder, Dr. Zafirides offers unique insights into the challenges people face in both life and love. 💡 Key […]

How Bias Breaks Matchmaker Credibility

In the world of professional matchmaking, it’s easy to focus on the external: who’s compatible with whom, what the client says they want, how someone presents on paper.  But there’s another factor that can make or break your effectiveness as a professional matchmaker—you.  Not your skills, not your intuition—though those are essential. We’re talking about your internal landscape. Your mindset. Your worldview. Your biases. […]

Why AI Can’t Replace Matchmakers: The Human Advantage in Love

✨ In a world where dating apps feel like fast food and AI is writing love notes, what role do REAL matchmakers play? In this solo kickoff episode of the Matchmaker Mentor Podcast, Arlene Washburn shares:💡 Why human connection, empathy & accountability can never be automated💡 How today’s swipe culture has stripped away intention in dating💡 The rise of loneliness—and […]